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Signed up and Rejection-ready

4:41 pm Saturday, 27th August, 2016



That's what we all are... not.

Rejections are probably one of the most difficult realities in our adult lives. Whether we are the ones giving or receiving them does not make it any less easier. Often we all have to get creative as not to be cruel. And more creative so as not to be so, so crestfallen. But if there was one thing even more difficult than dealing with rejection, that would be being honest.

Honesty is not black and white. It has degrees, angles and perspectives. It has half measures, negatives and excesses. An individual's range of truthfulness is wider than the length of the political spectrum. For those of us signed up here, it is one thing we dare not expect but continue to hope for. In this collective journey we all take, we get to know the lessons and characters of two prophets: honesty and rejections. Unfortunately, very rarely do we get to meet these two masters side by side, at the same time.

Today, I learned how very true that can be.



Comments
1:27 pm Friday, 2nd September, 2016

Hey I agree... sometimes u wonder whether you are worth the wait.... Its bit of patience n bit of luck that you meet the right companion with whom you can share as well as expect what you love... The experience here has been greatly good if you show patience and are open to converse, be non-judgemental... of course be respectful

12:42 am Saturday, 3rd September, 2016

Thumbs up! I agree rejection can always cause a persons brain to spin. A single experience can also mold or break a person. Every individual sho ld br accontable for their actions. In this not so perfect world, we cant really please everyone. Cheers to life. Have fun and be responsible.

12:42 am Saturday, 3rd September, 2016

Thumbs up! I agree rejection can always cause a persons brain to spin. A single experience can also mold or break a person. Every individual sho ld br accontable for their actions. In this not so perfect world, we cant really please everyone. Cheers to life. Have fun and be responsible.

12:36 am Tuesday, 6th September, 2016

Once I got rejected a few times, it didn't feel so bad anymore. I like to think of it as a sign of no resonance. :)

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