Perhaps I will tell you later, maybe, maybe not!

Sally,you know you can ask me almost anything about myself but please do not inquire into my politics ,religion or car. Some things are sacrosanct ! LOL xxxx

Tell me about it to be honest wish I never joined is anyone genuine?

This site has been taken over by way too many profiles that are clearly fake, scammers, liars, non genuine, bs.....the majority if you ask me are set up to try fooling us genuine members who are looking for adult fun to keep paying while getting nothing in return making the site almost pointless!!!
Shame really a it used to be decent with people who genuinely were looking for meetshook up etc whereas now I get constant messages without pics that say nothing on their profiles and add you to their hotlist and minutes later the profiles have deleted.....its a joke and I for one will not waste my had earned cash on membership for this type of bs...........get more meetshook ups from free dating sites so whats the point, I mean seriously - does the site really think we are all that stupid and easily fooled!!!

I really agree if they can,t take a couple of minutes to fill it out then why join in the first place ,have the same problem ,you get a message say that a person has added you to there hot list next u look deleted

I could right anything on my profile.. Wouldn't make a difference, bar one person no one else has contacted me in the two and a bit years .. Although I enjoy reading people's profiles who have made an effort describing either what they are likewhat they preferwhat they are looking for. To me I can get a rough idea of weather they are decent or not.. Fake and well you know the rest. Where are the woman who just enjoy getting there treasure eaten out so much you need hair transplants because they've pulled the hair out of the scalp.

Is this place worth paying for? Only joined today and hardly done anything but have a tonne of messages...makes me suspicious before I take the plunge with my cash...

I am sick of the amount of "prefer not to say" and "will tell you later" on so many profiles which I am beginning to think they are made up by the site to keep us interested . But there again I hooked up with a female a couple of weeks ago and we chatted for days she sent photos and videos and i sent mine and everything was going fie and a meeting was arranged with her and partner but the night before she said Ha Ha Sorry. So many time wasters.

@frankn72. Having recently taken the step to stop paying the VIP rate, I suddenly get tons of messages. None of which will respond. Do I assume they are fake - well, not all. The system is set up to message "prospects" in the hope that it will encourage connections. It's a pity the software used cannot filter members properly so that it at least tries to connect members witht the same interests. I have therefore stripped back my profile and am considering leaving the site because it really isn't worth the money.

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Hey I read your post, as I'm new to this site I have noticed the same thing too. I was wondering what sort of things I should have on my profile to be more open and to get more views.

Thanks
Lee

A female "acquaintance" of mine

Sorry, I was a bit premature there...!
A female 'acquaintance' of mine from another site told me that she'd been made a VIP member and was essentially being rewarded for sending messages and friend requests to random (mostly single male) members.
Unfortunately it's often those who operate and own the site who are the scammers.

Totally agree with phill happy, there's so many that seem to like the idea of it but never actually see things through I met one cuck couple and two women but had many more in conversation but then nothing it's actually really annoying but I guess that's what we have to go through to indulge our passions?

I do honestly agree with what you are saying because for myself being fairly new to all this it makes it 10 times harder ti integrate on you own, take the chat rooms, I try to be polite and speak to every one but as soon as you start having a decent chat you get almost bullied away from it. Not that anyone could ever bully me, but the tone of the chat changes. I think all new members should have a buddy signed to them until .they are up and running???

I know what you mean

What really gets my goat is people posting pics that are not their's and obviously off some porn site. If you're that embarrassed of your body don't post anything.

I'm glad I see this I have not payed yet and I don't think I will bother

Well my two pennyworth.... I am one of those "havent you read the fuckin profile" simply because I have written what I want, made it clear if you dont meet the requirements you wont get a reply yet still idiots want to talk to me and try to convince me they ARE what I am looking for. Well after a few of these your temper tends to fray a little, its like being with the kids in nursery who havent learnt the rules yet. As for fakes...its no worse or better than other sites, I have been on here 14 years and still get accused of being fake simply because the fool in question cant take no for a answer and have to find some way of getting back, no matter I have a pic on my profile, and yes we are a couple and no we dont each have a seperate profile plus a couple one. I can understand why some folk dont want pics put up, jobs, family, etc thats fine,their choice, but the one with tell you later, well I think any idiot can suss they are not players...just dreamers.

To many false profiles lies scams i agree wasted money being a member to be honest but if you want to meet im.genuine