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Free Wheeling With the Willie

3:58 am Wednesday, 6th July, 2016

Can I give an honest opinion on size matters? I feel like my profile summary discourages some readers where it concerns my size preference. I just need to be understood.

Yes, I happen to think 7' is the perfect size (add 1' or 2' to get to seventh heaven), and that has something to do with the fit. I can't help with how I am built down there, or where the pleasure receptors are located in that area.

Perhaps it all started with how I was conditioned as a kid, because I have always been vertically challenged. So I often admire looking at someone tall who stands with poise and confidence (female ramp models intimidate me, I don't know why). So I guess, when a hunk swaggers in my direction, I'd imagine the swing. :)

I am not necessarily impressed or comforted by the sight of anacondas --- they make me think of having to sign a waiver. But then, when nervousness is handled quite well by a guy you find comfortable to be with, the initial reaction to his hugeness gets tamed with the skill and care in maneuvering.

Oh, and from what I gathered, nothing ruins the moment more than when a female exclaims in fear, 'Argh, too big!'. Breathe, sissy, isn't that what the OB-GYN tells us during a trans-vaginal ultrasound test? Yes, I also feel for the boys with some of their big boy problems. I wouldn't want a let a hard one down.

People are more aware of their sensations than they care to notice...or admit. While males have the urge (and the urgency) to shoot their load, females (and a heck of a lot of us) take way much more time to get warmed up, and so we bother with all the little touching here and there. It's a happy thing to be already wound up, ready to roll over, before even meeting face to face, but more often than not, that moment has to be made to happen.

Incidentally, the first guy I had a serious (and sexual) relationship with was very well-endowed. From then on, I knew what every tool felt like. Experience will tell one what the best fit would be, and I think, one would normally go with the tried and tested, and then afterwards, becomes open to exploring how to expand boundaries.

To the Big Swinging Dicks of the site...I give you my Salute!



Comments
1:43 pm Wednesday, 6th July, 2016

Yeah thanks for your sharing and giving us old school guys to come out swinging with our big tools and experience in foreplay to pleasure the ladies needs first..

6:57 pm Wednesday, 6th July, 2016

wow. in written article. I couldn't explain myself better. high five!

8:33 pm Thursday, 7th July, 2016

excellent my lady

10:11 pm Thursday, 7th July, 2016

Hmmnmm well expressed n explained buddy learned a lot from that blog

2:15 am Friday, 8th July, 2016

Welcome back, Mzty. I was beginning to think it'd be a while before you got back because of other "pole-arizing" pursuits. As always your articles are a breath of fresh air, great seeing you back.

5:00 am Friday, 8th July, 2016

very well done,,,glad a woman under stands some guy problems,,to ,, yes need to be gentel and go from there,,,thanks for the read,,,

8:40 am Friday, 8th July, 2016

Finally - after a dearth of several months - an intelligently written article !!

I've also found that the root (no pun intended) of truly memorable sexual pleasure lies in the perfect size match. After all, the Kama Sutra has something to say about that.....

True, it gives a guy a degree of sexual cred to be packing something larger than usual, and for many women this will feel great. However, humans of both sexes are anatomically diverse, and some are a better fit than others. It also has nothing to do with body size: I've met some women who were physically tiny but had a considerable vaginal capacity, whereas others were pretty large but found penetration uncomfortable. It's true that a considerate male partner can make a woman more easily receptive, but in some cases there is a definite physical impediment no matter what he does or how much lube he slaps on :-) Sexual pleasure during penetration derives from whether pleasure receptors are being stimulated, and this in turn depends on the degree of stimulaton or in fact whether they are being reached at all :-) I have had sex with some women for whom being penetrated deeply and probed in the area around the cervix (i.e. gently caressed with the glans, rather than mindless wham-bamming) was truly a revelation to them. In other cases I was barely able to squeeze the end of my dick inside, and had to proceed very carefully using 3-4 inches rather than the whole length. Similarly, some positions were more "successful" than others in terms of perceived pleasure balanced against discomfort.

I think what it boils down to is that - somewhere out there - there is someone who is a perfect fit for you. Cinderella may be lucky in finding the ideal glass slipper, but for some it may take a lifetime. However, sex is a fascinating journey, and it is certainly fun doing a tour of the shoe-shops :-)

1:09 pm Saturday, 9th July, 2016

Us little boys just can't help with what we are given 😃, always the choice of partners with where buttons are pressed that pleases most. And slow finger control touches more than many tools 👅

2:40 pm Sunday, 10th July, 2016

You've got what you've got no matter what he looks like you just have to deal with it some men with big dicks have the dick but don't have a clue how to use it and then you get the man with the smaller cock and he walks in head held high and bangs the the living shit out of you so big is not always better. Just my opinion sorry to but Inn .

5:54 pm Sunday, 10th July, 2016

I understand you 100%. my wife has this crush on a dildo which i bought. she just hates the smell it leaves after she uses it in her. its an 1 34" girth and 8" cock don johnson cyber skin that she can take all the way in, at quarter past 5', i dildo fucked her with 2" girth with 10" length and she still got it in with a lot more lube, but it maxxed out at 8" depth as well. she loved it a lot and i mean she was screaming when she came! she even enjoyed a dp once with her 8" dildo and my dick with a 1 12" girth and 6" in her ass. man! i dont even need to pump it "she was like fuck me faster!". it was dark and she doesnt enjoy when all the lights turned on and her dildo and i were probing her insides slowly. she admitted that she enjoyed it and i am glad that she loved it!
she keeps hesitating when i mention swinging and i respect her decision. its her body. i'll just wait for the day she will say yes and then we'll call in the reinforcements. hehe

once in a while enjoy an 8" dildo in your pussy. with proper lubrication, you can easily take it and you'll love it too! enjoy! by the way, my wife fantasizes about lesbian fisting. I would love to watch them try and im cumming all over them like maple syrup on a pancake! img src="imagesadultemoticons002.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons029.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons028.gif"

10:28 pm Sunday, 10th July, 2016

img src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif" so real hmm

12:16 pm Wednesday, 13th July, 2016

I like it get the tape measure out I just about right size wise about 7 inchs long about 1 half thick img src="imagesadultemoticons008.gif"

10:49 pm Thursday, 14th July, 2016

I heard this from a woman before. It's not about the size but the perfect fit. Some women need big cocks to feel pleasure while some find it painful. Big cocks for big pussies. Average cocks for average pussies. Small cocks for small pussies. Perfect fits are the most pleasurable.

I got nothing to brag on the size department. Hey, I'm Asian. It's just the way it is. But we do compensate on some other areas. I heard we Asians can be rock hard and are never limp. We can last longer and are capable of multiple orgasms. Since we have light bodies, we move better in bed. Well it's just hearsay. I have never really compared my performance with other races. I just enjoy what I can, when I can. Pleasure trumps ego everytime. As long as everybody is having fun I would care less if the guy next to me fucking the same girl as I am is built like a horse. A good encounter is still a good encounter. Bonds of friendship are formed when we all enjoy each other's company.

Just my thoughts guys. No insult intended.

5:48 pm Friday, 15th July, 2016

Quite candid and useful.

8:34 am Saturday, 16th July, 2016

Alls well that ends well its not the size its the pleasure that countsimg src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

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