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Exercise and libido - why cumming is harder?

4:05 pm Sunday, 4th October, 2015

Hubby trains for ironman races on average 3 hours a day. Some days he does long sessions of up to 7 hours, usually 4 to 5 weeks before the race. I understand he is not up for a full session of sex but what happens baffles both of us.
He feels horny, gets hard, but can't seem to cum.
Like there is no level of stimulation that will get his rocks off...
Any advise o idea as to what that is?



Comments
9:22 pm Sunday, 4th October, 2015

Tell him to take creatine I used it while raining for the world championships

9:51 pm Sunday, 4th October, 2015

Hi sweety! I think the problem has to do with a kind of dysfunction of the Pudendal nerve that is getting compressed with long rides. Maybe he needs to take care of it with some extra padding ! Iam also into Triathlon and I remember very well that in my firsty Half Ironman I lost sensation in my perineum around testicles area. I could mastrubate & erect ok but to cum was very difficult for 4-5 days after the race!!! Hope this helps!!!

9:51 pm Sunday, 4th October, 2015

Hi sweety! I think the problem has to do with a kind of dysfunction of the Pudendal nerve that is getting compressed with long rides. Maybe he needs to take care of it with some extra padding ! Iam also into Triathlon and I remember very well that in my firsty Half Ironman I lost sensation in my perineum around testicles area. I could mastrubate & erect ok but to cum was very difficult for 4-5 days after the race!!! Hope this helps!!!

5:20 pm Monday, 5th October, 2015

If I were you, I'd keep quiet and simply enjoy the marathon ride :-) Some women complain their men are like jack rabbits. To me it seems you've found the ideal solution :-)

5:38 pm Monday, 5th October, 2015

Have to say i wouldn't really see this as a bit problem. The way i see it at least he won't be reaching the finishing line before you were even off the starting blocks, though maybe i just try to find a positive for every negative.
So what are you waiting for get on with it woman and take your fill ;-) x

5:39 pm Monday, 5th October, 2015

Grrr **** big problem. Autocorrect is a pain at times!!!

1:31 am Tuesday, 6th October, 2015

thats frustrating ,,the thing is,,have u tried different stuff to make him cum,,3some or swing,,dont get me wrong,,but men are always horny,,if things go on like that even if you tried stuff,,its probably you..the reasonwhy he cant

1:32 am Tuesday, 6th October, 2015

thats frustrating ,,the thing is,,have u tried different stuff to make him cum,,3some or swing,,dont get me wrong,,but men are always horny,,if things go on like that even if you tried stuff,,its probably you..the reasonwhy he cant

1:36 am Tuesday, 6th October, 2015

however,,its not really a big problem i think,,some girls like to have sex for hours,,if i were i will just enjoy the time,,and of course try working hard when giving a blow job,,hope this helps

2:46 pm Tuesday, 6th October, 2015

Its no of d above
Check his blood pressure
And if its high maybe he had hypertension
I suffer from it due to my work
And it sounds like he has it tooimg src="imagesadultemoticons005.gif"

3:34 pm Tuesday, 6th October, 2015

following... tks for urs answers... i have just started will be doing Half Marathon next week.. and looking for running in coming days... love enjoy my sex life is one of reasons to start.... tks.. U all...

6:00 am Wednesday, 7th October, 2015

Miss Valiant. You're my type of woman ! You mentioned " tea break " That's very civilized ! One lump or two ? xx

1:31 pm Wednesday, 7th October, 2015

Call me i find solution for you baby img src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif"

8:35 pm Wednesday, 7th October, 2015

Endurance cyclists often suffer erectile dysfunction...they also get Atrial fibrillation....not good...Google it....

10:08 pm Wednesday, 7th October, 2015

Is he on medication? I can't cum with sex for love nor money. Whereas masturbation I can. Just needs a bit more friction ;-)

12:33 am Thursday, 8th October, 2015

Yeah get your ass to Devon lol xxx

5:12 am Friday, 9th October, 2015

I agree with Margiolas7 - it's compression of the nerves, tubes whatever by long hours in the saddle. Had the same problem myself till I changed to a gel saddle with a groove down the centre. Don't think it's the fitness training per se, as I do fitness training or running for hours everyday, and have no more problems since I changed the saddle.

1:37 pm Friday, 9th October, 2015

Hmm. I'm sure my problem was purely physical, as I had pins & needles down there after long rides. Then just the same, had no erectile problems, but found it hard to come. Despite serious exercise, I've had no problem since changing the saddle. Suggest to him that he stops riding for a couple of weeks, and just runs + cross-training. See if it makes a difference.

9:50 pm Friday, 9th October, 2015

to many testosterone pills

11:02 am Sunday, 11th October, 2015

Excessively long durations exercise can actually lower testosterone levels, especially if there wasn't sufficient rest time in between each session.

11:03 am Sunday, 11th October, 2015

Excessively long duration exercise can actually lower testosterone levels, especially if there wasn't sufficient rest time in between each session.

5:57 am Wednesday, 14th October, 2015

This is interesting since I feel the same way after doing circuit trainings. My partner and I observed that I am extra horny. Surprisingly, I last longer in bed too and cannot, at times, cum. Please enlighten us.

11:40 am Thursday, 15th October, 2015

its purely got to do with testosterone levels....nothing much to worry about....as testosterone levels can get depleted after training, so he needs to replenish that.img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

8:40 pm Thursday, 15th October, 2015

If there's anything jacking with his serotonin levels it can have this effect. When I was in college one of the medications they started me on for attention deficit was an SRI. It was MURDER. I hated it. I would get right to the very top of the mountain but never could get over the crest to coast down the other side. As MissValiant stated, it was hell on my girlfriend as well. I mean she was very VERY patient during that period. Of course initially she enjoyed it but then when things got to the point they were literally going for 45 mins to an hour she finally started hinting around I needed to go while she soaked in the tub. The only positive was that my abs were banging from all the banging but after about a month I told the doc to keep the pills that I'd rather fail out of school than go another week with that frustration. Since serotonin and endorphins are both so closely related and seem to be effected by exercise and diet, you may look into this. I know when I am lifting weights, it's never really for the end product of looking better or even really having better health. Once I'm going it's all about the endorphins and I'll start out at a normal pace but soon find myself pushing the limits to the max just to get that rush. I honestly think most distance runners are neurotransmitter junkies because if they don't get that run in every day they can become very nasty. This is also the reason that drugs like heroin are so addictive because they're almost identical to what the brain makes in chemical composition and once the brain gets a taste it wants more.

3:00 am Saturday, 3rd December, 2016

I train heavily as well. Makes me horny & sexy, and I'm always up for sex with my wife. But although I do come eventually, it can take a long time. Which is good, I suppose! There are times when my wife & I really have to work to make me come. So I suppose exercise does have a delaying effect of some sort. If your husband is still horny, like me, I wouldn't worry too much. As long as he can maintain his erection, you just need to work out techniques to help him to cum. Good luck!

12:22 am Saturday, 14th December, 2019

May be any supplements he is using that mess with his serotonin levels an as well with sexual stimulation . 

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