A journey in the site. Has it changed you?

Great blog hits a bit close to home for us at this point in time in our journey into this lifestyle .. Having two kids it's hard for us to make meets with everyone we r talking to however every meet we've had apart from one or two have been one time meets never to see again.. We r now at the point do we change what we r looking for and mayby be more successful in our adventures or stick with our current profile and just be happy with what ever we get ???
It takes time I think for you to get to know anyone new but at the end of the day no matter how honest you are u will never know the third party couple or more unless they become long term play mates.. Face to face is the only way but still not 100% trust your judgement if it feels off it probably is ..
Yes I feel this site lifestyle has changed us however I like to think of it as we have grown not changed xxx

Well written as always free.

Well free you are always more than welcome to be my editor, sounded awesome from you. :)

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Oh well i did try but obviously i'm not being permitted share any advice or input in anywayimg src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

OMG. I did read it too Morticia. That is so weird....U were just saying that it is better to keep information people share with you for yourself. Nothing worse than trusting a person here and then realizing they r telling everyone everything about you...It has never happened to me but gosh I would not like that.

BTW, I am reading all your replies and I love them. Thanks for being so kind as always. I am glad that each of you is finding the site a place to make u a tiny bit happier :)....I hope more people tell us more img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"

Ahhh but it's just a shame that some do so without a care Gemini then seem to forget that they did so and 'carry on regardless'. Meanwhile the person they betrayed is left questioning if the person was ever a friend at all, not to mention that they may feel that no one can or should be trusted.

I'm not speaking about my personal experience, it's what i've observed during my time here on the site and more so on the blogs. I know for sure i'll never trust anyone with any of my 'personal private' information, at least until i've got the full measure of the other person, which probably wouldn't happen until i'd met them in person a few times.

My advice is 'Beware of wolves in sheep's clothing'

Whoopee, now will see if the one above stays or goes hahahaimg src="imagesadultemoticons021.gif"

Ha ha ha S&C. The power's that be must be having a lazy sunday in bed :-)

In fact I started off my adult dating career on another site over a decade ago, and then thought I'd add this site as a sort of "insurance", as by then I was coming to UK more regularly and wanted to catch up with my Britishness. The "other site" has been way more productive in terms of meets, but as I live in Japan most of the time, that's hardly surprising. I wouldn't say this site has changed me very much, but it has opened my eyes to the fact that - for at least *some* people - being here is a very important part of their lives, and I'm not sure that's such a healthy thing. As I'm absolutely unconcerned with site gossip and politics, I have sometimes been quite surprised by how seriously some people get involved with that. However, people's needs differ and I suppose I've always been a bit detached by nature, so far be it from me to criticize: as long as they understand my position too. I've been a blogging semi-regular for about 2 years, and have enjoyed a lot of it. The blogs on this site are rather more laid back and whimsical in comparison with other places, so I never feel inhibited or challenged about putting pen to paper when I'm in the mood. It's been a good exercise in communication and observation of one's fellow man (and woman). I hope I haven't come over as being a sort of blog Nazi about foodstuffs.....it's just that when threads start to slide in that direction, I don't find it very inspiring. By all means feel free to visit Starbucks if you want, but my own preference is for the brothel :-)

I'll agree with you there Mac, it's harder than it looks to actually meet anyone...but nothing too easy is worth having eh? Well that's what i tell myself!!
Has coming on here changed me? No, but it has occasionally brightened up my day!

Skebbie, I do share the feeling about the blogs...I stopped for a while but I have to say they work for me in different levels. It seems I started in this site due to a blog and now, I am still here due to them and writing sometimes is like catharsis in some cases.

Lostman: You are very kind for that comment :)

Mac, Sassy and SC: I do agree about distance and how international this place is, but I am the living proof that when there is a will, there is a way. Besides, it is always amazing to chat to so many people all over the world. Yes, sometimes they are far but I always think there could be a chance in the future. Hope is a nice thing to have :)

Hope...stops us from jumping off the roof or watching Jeremy Kyle...

This site has changed me a lot in the sense that it has taught me that there is a lot more going on in people than I can even begin to comprehend. It has taught me to be open-minded and non-judgemental. It has also given me more confidence in myself. It has given me more giggles than I ever thought possible. You are a fab bunch of people. Long may my job continue :-)

Word up SS fancy seeing you here!

Jeremy Kyle. ..they've all got to be actors right? ?

Omg I cant believe Choco's comment was erased. Was it the comment about Roger?
Note: Roger is a coffee maker.

I have been reading about this Lostman, and now I can see it is serious and I wonder why it is becoming so regular...I was even thinking it is a random system that has been programmed to just do it when typing certain words?
*BTW, it was nice to see u in the chat Lostman sorry I vanished but I was booted. :P

So far this site hasn't changed me at all. I'm yet to meet anyone but being the eternal optimist, I think I will in time. Free, I like your honesty in what and how you write and now that I've figured out where to find your blogs, I'll try and stay updated on what's happening with you. :)

Aussie, thank you. Your comments are indeed very kind. I am wishing u the best of luck on this site. I think each of us has got a journey. Hopefully, yours will be one that makes u even happier.