We have changed, altered and re jigged our profile a number of times and we both think that what we are looking for is quite obvious and plain to everyone who views our profile.
We are aware that when are profile is viewed the "viewer" won't know until they read our profile as to what our criteria is, as we then check who has viewed us ( some are disregarded straightaway) we then get a message,friend request or we've been added to their hotlist even though we have nothing that matches their or our criteria!
We do have a great number of views every day and we always check those who have viewed us but because we see who has viewed us its seems this is misconstrued that we are interested, far from it!
Anyone have any ideas as to this dilemma?
On the other side of the coin, we have viewed other members and more than one occasion (short term memory) but we don't message when we're not compatible.
L&P :-)
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8:47 am Thursday, 25th June, 2015
Our requirements are in the first couple of sentences but still get invites from single guys. Really ppl should read accounts |
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4:17 pm Thursday, 25th June, 2015
I take the approach of not defining a too narrow requirement.
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8:30 am Saturday, 27th June, 2015
It is a dilemma that we all suffer from. Recently reworded my profile and hope it is clearer, but sometimes ones circumstances don't fit boxes. Being Carer, my partner understands that I seek gratification which we shared when that was possible, but would find Bi, which I have experienced, difficult. So sometime we have to contact and hope, rather than just wait. There is no easy solution to either. |
