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Good conversation as foreplay

10:26 am Thursday, 18th June, 2015

There are all sorts of different people on this site - that's fine. Straight talkers, text speakers, the almost monosyllabic... Those who want a quick bang with anything that moves, and those who want to chat, and look, but not to get real. As for me, after my first meet since joining the site, I am singing the praises of a good conversation as the lead up to a really great sexy evening. Courtesy and humour, and some great banter, a little nervousness on both sides, all just add to the excitement of anticipation. And the greater the anticipation, the more delicious the feeling of finally letting it all go and diving into the experience!



Comments
11:14 am Thursday, 18th June, 2015

Very succinctly expressed Chrissy . I don't imagine any thinking person would take issue with your observations xx

2:46 pm Thursday, 18th June, 2015

Politness doesnt kill always get as much stimulation from an intellegent chat!

3:28 pm Thursday, 18th June, 2015

My attitude here has always been a "holistic" one. If there's no mental connection in initial e-mails, no shared interests and values outside the bedroom, and no banter, then any sex that transpires is going to be empty in the extreme. And yet for others it seems perfectly sufficient to show up on the doorstep, summarily drop trousersknickers do the deed and then walk off :-) I guess you just have to choose which camp you belong to......

4:40 pm Thursday, 18th June, 2015

I could not agree more x

3:05 am Friday, 19th June, 2015

I think like many of the bloggers here have said already there is nothing like a person who turns on your mind. A person who is able to hold a chat, a person who is good at flirting, a person who is truly interested in your mind is indeed a person worth meeting. What follows next could be just amazing as there is chemistry and then passion.

I do agree with Lillie though, not all people may live up to expectations. Perhaps a risk to take, afterall you need to kiss a few frogs before finding the right prince. img src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif"

12:10 pm Friday, 19th June, 2015

Like you said experience! You don't get any comfort moment if you don't get experience img src="imagesadultemoticons029.gif"

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