THE BATTLE OF THE AGES

Vic, I hope u do find the right person then :)

Sassy: I have heard many times ladies referring to that reason which makes sense completely. However, I have to say I have chatted with very mature and bright young guys.....

I'm not getting into a conversation with you about new cars versus classics. I have this feeling that it could cost me a lot of money ! xxxx

Try reading the classic "In Praise of Older Women" by Stephen Vizinczey a Hungarian guy who advances the proposition that sex is a skill like any other and therefore you should as a young person learn it from an older person as they have the experience. I have copy of this erotic classic in my left hand and you can guess what is in my right hand (Thats right the keyboard of my computer!).

Thanks all for your replies.

Lillie: Well written!! I do agree with you about the way we feel inside and I always hoping my body will follow that trend too. :P Yours I have to say is amazing :)

Louie: It is a very interesting point what u raised there. Age and experience would differ from person to person. I tend to think that experience would have always a positive impact on people in all areas. Thanks for sharing a little about you :)

HSBC: My respects to your wife. 37 years ago it must have been quite something to have a relationship with someone that young. She must have seen a lot in you for sure. I hope this new arrangement makes u happy my friend :) Life is always unexpected.

I have not seen yet replies from younger people yet.
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Choco: I did not know there were mature kitkats. Are they special and the chocolate getting better with time? Are younger kitkats still not good for u to eat? img src="imagesadultemoticons021.gif"

Age and treachery beats youth and enthusiasm every time.

I sing praise and shout nasty words about men of all ages. I'll be honest here....having been with men twice my age (no, I was not in my 40s at the time) and half my age (yes, legal!!) I've found that age truly is a number. There are winners and losers of both genders and all ages.

I don't consider myself a cougar, but. There are qualities among both older and younger men that I truly find attractive.

Older: more confident, more experienced, less likely to hop out of bed immediately and move on to something new. They tend to put the woman's pleasure first, and take their time.

Younger: Eager and full of energy and vitality, up for anything, and generally have a fun outlook on life. The line of "but what do you talk about when not otherwise engaged" has not been an issue, mostly because I don't look for a man with a body, but one with a personality.

Now wondering if I've said too much about myself here.....ooops. I still maintain my innocence.

Have to say I do prefer younger men....but still have a limit as to how young though lol I have been with men who are older than me and they do nothing for me at all. Will be sticking to my toyboys :) xx

Eg: Wow! Nice way to describe your experiences

SB: You made me laugh there..toyboys img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif" age is just a number, bcos when you get older you become more wiser , getting to know how to turn a woman on , it's not all about wham bam thank you mam, I love using my tongue on a woman's clit n pussy smothered of course in runny honey,
It's tastes so yummy, and the orgasms the lady gets can be ooh extreme!

That said I saw not one but two Austin Allegros on the M1 on Sunday and I am bound to say they do not get better with time...

If the allegro is clean tidy and properly looked after it becomes a timeless classic, some will take five and give you a good ride!

As a younger man, all my relationships were with older women but now that I'm older, my attraction is towards younger but not for the reasons most would think.
When I was young, I struggled with the ability to effectively communicate with people my own age due to having asperges. It just severely restricted my social abilities because I struggled with reading body language and that being over 80% pf communication, made it really hard for me to relate with my own age. Older women could let me know without question when they were interested in me so the body language confusion wasn't a hondetemce in the connection. Subsequently, I took on the role of step fathering 3 times which had its own difficulties in the fact that in my first serious relationship at 26, I was just over 10 years older than the oldest child I was responsible for.
My attraction to younger women now is based on the fact that I never had kids of my own and would still like the chance to do so. As far as sexual compatibility goes, age doesn't really come into the equation as far as I see but a meaningful and beneficial for both people, relationship is far more than simple sexual compatibility. Without mutual respect and understanding, any relationship be it simply friends or a deeper physical connection, is doomed to failure in my view. Relationships need friendship as foundations for them to nurture and grow and there lies the difficulty between the ages. The further apart two people's ages are, generally, the less in common they have. It takes a special kind of understanding and support from both parties to make a relationship work when the age bracket has a significant difference, that is if that connection is more than just satisfying sexual desire. My thoughts anyway. :)