Why it is a good idea to swap partners ?

This website, where we are now is facilitates our options and personal desires (Thank you #LillieG for rectifying my error) worldwide. Now some people may be averse to the whole idea of swapping while most members here are either doing this for the first time or are having some experiences or may be totally new to this whole thing as such. So for all I am putting down this blog post, hoping someone will learn something new today.

What is partner swapping ?

We will not use the word Wife swapping because there is exchange of both husband and wife and so why use only the word wife to make it feel like the wife is not a human being but an object. Both the husband and wife are objects here and so we would consider this as partner swapping. Well as most of you know, this is a practice in which you let your partner enjoy some physical or mental pleasure with the opposite partner of another couple. It is like Wife1 to Husband2 and Husband1 to Wife2. Simple as that. It does not always involve having sex because getting gratification is not at all dependant on being physical.

Who Swaps partners ?

In real life most people enjoy this by some other name. They would not use the word swapping but most men like to look at other women and the women too like that. It is a sort of visual sex. We like other women other than our wives. Now some people take this to a little more and try to be close to other women and enjoy sex outside marriage. So does women too. This is the simplest form of swapping, although the couple never discuss about this thing in open.

Why should we swap ?

For most people who will speak loudly about virtues and traditions etc, this is SIN. And for us it is pleasure. Remember sex is not your identity. Your personality is your identity. People do not bother to know with whom you are having an affair until your personality is strong. And so famous people get away with everything in their stride. Remember Monica Lewinsky !!! I feel, sex is our personal choice and we must be free to chose with whom we will have sex. Before marriage many people have sex with many people but as soon as they are married they behave as if they are pure. What changes after marriage? Nothing except that you find yourself bound with traditions etc. Come out of it.

Having sex with the same person may not be a bad thing initially at all as we all are hungry for sex but over the period of time it becomes monotonous. And we do not like sex and so people resort to other pleasures like watching porn and sharing nude photos with friends. SO in such a state of life if we can find pleasure in enjoying sex with someone new, we must welcome that.

In the past people visited brothels and had sex with prostitutes, and I think Swapping is much better than doing that. In swapping you are having a mutual understanding with another couple or many couples and like you they too must be careful about their health and hyiegene. So you can be always safe from diseases and dangers of risking your life.

Since it is done inside your homes it is absolutely safe from police raids which can happen in brothels and hotels.

You are not forcing anyone for sex here and so it is not bad at all. Most couples take months to explore each other before they actually meet in person and then getting on the bed may take even longer and so there is always a judged decision and so it is safe.

Because both couples entering into swapping are mature and understanding and so there is no chance of one couple harassing the other over swapping issues.

After marriage every couple will definitely reach a stage when they will not be able to entertain themselves in presence of the same partner and then sex will become stale and boring. In many societies the women get busy with kids and do not give way for more pleasure to the men while the men go out in search of other women. So in such a scenario I suggest swapping be experimented and tried to get pleasure.

You can do it as long as you wish and since you both are involved you both can keep an eye on each others activities and you do not need to doubt the other.

I will come up with some more writeups on this soon. Please comment on this and let me know about your thoughts.

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