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6 Ways Handcuffs Can Enhance Your Sex Life - Blog Discussion

12:00 am Monday, 18th February, 2019

Considering trying BDSM or simply spicing things up in the bedroom? The week we are celebrating Handcuff Day, so if you are looking for a fun way to add some kink to your sex life, restraints are a fantastic way to explore the world of bondage and discover a new level of pleasure and play.




  • Handcuff your partner's wrists behind their back so you can grab the chain and control their arms during Doggie Style. Just make sure they have a pillow in front of them, so if their head ends up crashing onto the bed, they’ll have something soft to lean against.


  • Handcuff your partner to a sturdy chair, and then do a striptease for them from across the room. They'll be dying to touch you, but he won’t be able to move.


  • Handcuff your partner, push them onto their knees, and order them to use their mouth to make you orgasm. Make sure you explain that the cuffs won’t be coming off until you get off.


  • Move out of the bedroom. Try handcuffing your partner to the railing of your staircase, and then have hot sex on the steps. Or handcuff your partner to a low-hanging tree branch and have sex in the park.


  • Roleplay. Instead of breaking out the handcuffs without any context, pretend to be a dirty cop or a horny criminal.


  • Handcuffs aren’t always enough. Try placing a blindfold over your partner’s eyes as well, so you have even more control over them. Then you can kiss them all over their body, but they won’t see where your mouth is moving too next.



Have you used handcuffs in the bedroom? Do you have any more suggestions? Let us know in the comments below.



Comments
3:20 pm Tuesday, 19th February, 2019

Like the cuffs always have, they  gave it a bit of umpphh...!! Even the more shy & reserved found pleasure

6:43 pm Tuesday, 19th February, 2019

Hi

7:03 am Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

i love handcuffs, blindfolds and spanking

9:24 am Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

Hi I have found that zip ties can be used as handcuffs in a few different ways like behind there back, tie with their arms above their head, or even used to restrain them to a chair.

10:31 am Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

Bondage bound 1 to 4 tie downs, and pulleys for smoother and easier maneuvers, quick releases for smooth transition into another restraint position, 
Rubber ropes are really easy to place your sub in multiple angles.

3:39 pm Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

Handcuffs, ropes, zip ties, neckties, and even power cords I have used them all.  Complete control is wonderful, being given that control is orgasmic, there is nothing more thrilling than being given complete control ove another body and mind   

5:10 pm Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

Blind and handcuff my fella to the chair while I fuck a woman and all he can do is listen x

5:29 pm Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

Took three officers to hand cuff me rarther of it been females though lol

7:03 pm Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

Like a bit of bondage, lone it around my dick love it😀😀😀👠

7:47 pm Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

You should try handcuffs the the boat while fishing got it? You should try it on a train trip in Europe.

9:07 pm Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

Handcuffs can hurt the wrists. I prefer to use a rope tie instead. It doesn't chaff and gives the sub a rope to hold onto also hehe! Ultimately like all bdsm it's about trust and giving up control to the Dom 🙂

10:11 pm Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

like it

10:22 pm Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

I'd love to be punished and bonded

10:28 pm Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

Bondage then cuffed be great, all offers considered

10:35 pm Wednesday, 20th February, 2019

I love Butt plugs want more

12:52 pm Thursday, 21st February, 2019

There is definitely something extremely hot about being cuffed and restrained by your lover be it male or female,to lose control of what is about to happen to you and not able to move or break free heightens my sexual awareness ,i find the more i am put in a position of no control the more my senses are awakened.   

4:26 pm Thursday, 21st February, 2019

I like cuffs tied up dominated breathplay  mostly everything 

4:38 pm Thursday, 21st February, 2019

Belts and silk ribbon work great for timing your partner up

5:22 pm Thursday, 21st February, 2019

So sweet

6:27 pm Thursday, 21st February, 2019

We have not used handcuffs in the past but after reading your possibilities using handcuffs we both are open to the idea.  The idea of my wife being cuffed over her head to a tree branch is very open to that idea if we find a place outdoors that nobody else will walk by and see her.    Definitely will cuff her hands behind her and push her down on her knees.  I think that specific action can be do to her even when she is shared with another man.       

7:29 pm Thursday, 21st February, 2019

Sounds like a lot of fun some thing I would love to try.

9:42 pm Thursday, 21st February, 2019

I love real sex hmmm

10:02 pm Thursday, 21st February, 2019

I have used soft type bondage ropes and ballgag, mmmmmHEAVEN

11:52 pm Thursday, 21st February, 2019

4 cuffs arms and legs to the bed face down and wait to be taken 

4:52 am Friday, 22nd February, 2019

I Love THE WAY the administrator THINKS would THAT she were MY LADY 

8:30 am Friday, 22nd February, 2019

Its a lot of fun for bouth partys that are into cuffs.

8:47 am Friday, 22nd February, 2019

I will be 

10:02 am Friday, 22nd February, 2019

What's your address

10:09 am Friday, 22nd February, 2019

I am.ready now

10:09 am Friday, 22nd February, 2019

I am.ready now

1:27 am Saturday, 23rd February, 2019

Hi beauty

3:26 am Sunday, 24th February, 2019

No never have 

3:26 am Sunday, 24th February, 2019

No never have 

8:10 am Sunday, 24th February, 2019

Yes my wife and I used to fuck like rabbits but recently things aren't working. The boring cow is take take take. I've recently joined this site coz my big fat white rock hard 7inch thick cock needs to be sucked and fucked daily a good 23times. Will finance meets. Working professional. Drive and have transport. No time wasting plz. Free today until late

9:05 pm Wednesday, 27th February, 2019

Thank you

10:01 am Sunday, 24th March, 2019

Like my pics

9:05 am Sunday, 19th May, 2019

I wish I had a Dom friend. I would be so good.

12:26 pm Friday, 24th May, 2019

paula once met his Mistress in a bar near her dungeon where she ordered him to put on a pair of panties before they left.   On the street she pulled me close to her and cuffed my wrists behind my back.   As we got closer to her dungeon she put another pair of panties in my mouth and finally a blindfold .  That was the beginning of my total submission as that night she totally dominated paula.👙👙👠👠

10:20 am Tuesday, 23rd July, 2019

Blindfold and handcuff your partner to a St. Andrews cross.

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