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There are MANY women on here who do meet (and men as well). We are all as varied as in any aspect of life so try new things and don't rely just on mail to get responses. (A good definition of insanity is repeating the same thing over and over and each time expecting different results).

As someone else said we are massively outnumbered. I do Ok and I'm nothing special. I send loads of emails to people in the who's on line section. If you get one reply from ten emails then you're doing well. I chat in the chat room (beta not vintage) and have met a couple of times that way. I'm just patient and keep going I guess. I would also suggest a club. There are those that take single guys. This can give you a confidence boost. Be dependable one of the biggest complaints I hear is that people have been let down at the last minute. I'm not an expert that's all I do.

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Specially for LillieG I go into song and dance mode " Hey Hobo Man,Hey Dapper Dan ,you both got your style, but brother ,you're never fully dressed without a smile "
Now to address the question. For a start, stand or sit up straight ! Remember it takes fewer muscles to smile than it does to grimace.Playing the sympathy card only works if you do it in fun. Pay attention as to how you address ladies and don't be pushy. One of the very best pieces of advice I was given when a very young man was " Always be respectful and polite to ladies ,make them smile and laugh and you're more than halfway to success " It's worked for me and if you work on improving your charisma, there's no reason why it shouldn't work for you.
Best of Luck !

Yes there are timewasters and fake people on here.....but there are also loads of genuine people on here too. As someone else said....you need to take time to get to know people before expecting them to meet up. Try going in chat and talking in the main room and then chatting in pm.
Also would advise trying to attend socials......its a great way to meet people and may even meet someone you get on great with and see again :)

I have been on here nearly 4 years now and have met loads of people through socials and had 1-1 meets........so yes it does work but it also takes time :)