What does turn you on during the act or that does not?

SS. We r on the same wavelenght. If a man takes his time turning on first my mind and then my body, we have got a winner. Furthernore, if I can see.in his eyes how much he wants me then ......ok I think I shud hug my teddy bear for comfort. img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

Awwwww SS! Let's have a night out when I am in the UK and talk about rankings....again....:P....I hope it has nothing to do with this...

Eye Contact is crucial to me...... It tells so much especially in the moment.

The flirting across a table at dinner in a crowded sexy restaraunt.... Eye contact, slight contact, sensual wine and food.... A conversation about your thoughts of that person. Not to give it all away right then and there but subtleness is key to build up that excitement. I'm very proud of my boobs, I'm love a sexy pair on a woman....as for men..... Mmmmm good strong shoulders, sexy eyes and a great smile.... All a huge turn on. Start out with soft sensual kissing..... Don't get me wrong I love a good crazy sweaty sex session but first time meet is about getting to know what turns that person on.

Finding fault AFTER the deed, when the supposed fault was plain to see BEFORE it seems very underhand to me. OK, so no-one expects to find Love Story here, but just grabbing what you want then running the other person down is at best discourteous and at the very least totally cynical. For me, if there is no spark there at the first meeting, then be honest about it and admit you got the pre-meet vibe wrong. And SS, don't let one bad experience destroy your trust in all men. Some of us can be quite considerate! Just saying 😘

Without a shadow of doubt, it is my sex organs that lovers seem to like.

I have two, a medium ish one, and a much bigger one.
There's absolutely no question, it's the bigger one that does the trick. Every time.

The smaller one just needs the usual wire brush and Dettol treatment, just to make sure I'm clean as I possibly can be, all over... But then, the big organ runs the whole show.

I keep it nice and safe, between my ears ;-)

Just to return to topic briefly (I know, it's not like bloggers to stick to the topic!), for me the eyes are the windows to the soul, so eye contact is important....and, of course, being totally crude, it helps if the lady is well-endowed in the knocker department! Lol img src="imagesadultemoticons028.gif"

Eating a nice pussy and sucking on her clit mmmm I look up between her boobs and catch sight of her head thrown back , eyes closed completely abandoned mmmm makes me so hard

ELW my front door is in the big 'knocker' department but i sometimes wish some people would warm their hands before playing with my knocker lol img src="imagesadultemoticons021.gif"

On the blog topic, as i state in my profile 'Kiss my mind and my body may follow' as i do require a meeting of the minds before anything else can follow. Oh and it's all in the eyes for me also OSF :-) x

Well, there have to be defo some kind of physical attraction for two people to initiate the first contact. Like I mentioned in another blog looks indeed are part of the dance but I love the whole package in a man. During the actual act, I would like to think I will find one day someone who really looks at me and does not see "Any faults" but it is just completely lost in the fact that he truly likes me as a whole without looking at tiny details.

Bum man myself very heavily into Rimming|
Giving and Receiving..x

All my wife has to do to turn me on is touch me img src="imagesadultemoticons008.gif" but to hear my wife tell me how she will slip her hands down a strangers pants is like having a shot of something in the arm.
I can't believe how horny it makes me img src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif"

when i was younger around 20 years old i let a black man take me to bed he was such a turn on for me he made me cum 5 times and i orgasmed ovar and ovar since then i only went with black pepole they are realy sexy pastionate careing pepole they give the best sexyest times going but now am older ill go with white or brown black men i love been gay img src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif"

m m m interesting .for me it is about looking in the eyes

Good

Jelly babies
Champagne
Clean sheets
Silk rope

Bad

Hotel staff knocking on the door because of the noise
A certain hotel near Wolverhampton
Being molested by a pair of Whippets whilst working hard to stay - er - hard

Well, I am always excited about new dates...her mind, to undress, smelling her body. First kiss, feel and lick the hard nipples the first time....Hearing hear breath....touch the soft skin of a naughty girl....taste her wet pussy and love to hear how much she enjoys...soooooo many things at all.img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

Whar really turns on is unconventional stuffs like women completely dominating in act.

My personal turn-ons are:
1) getting fully controlled by women
2) Being used by women
3) Trying in weird places
4) Forcing her pussy on my lips and making me lick for hours
So many of them are there.

many things fall into sequence as foreplay begins all the way to total exhaustion. The subtle touch as eyes lock on each other. Trembling lips locked in passion, Playful teasing as the layers of clothing fall to the floor, the soft touch of finger tips tracing the vibrant lines and curves of the body, the feel of warm breath and moans against the skin, Exploring and discovering as many erotic zones before the heat of passion overwhelm and we surrender to animalistic desires and maneuvers, and then the intense images of breading the luscious woman in my arms with my children, the sudden explosion and feel of our orgasm leaking between us.

Turn offs: Dead lays, over exaggeration of the act, fighting or unusual roughness, repetitive fake dirty talk.

I love sitting next to a lady and sliding my hand up her skirt to find out whats there knickers or knot, stockings to tights, a warm wet pussy etc - I just love exploring and making her cum all over my fingers and then my tongue before burying my self deep in her a flooding that lovely pussy with hot juice.

I enjoy telling my hubby to excite a guy for me. Obviously I have an extremely wicked streak, and nothing excites me more than watching my hubby play with a guys cock. And if it is bigger than his, which is almost always the case. (he isn't a big guy Lol!) telling him how much bigger it is. Maybe even telling him to get his cock out to compare. Love seeing a big cock against my hubbys small one. Wicked eh?

licking your pussy as you sit on my face would definitely turn me onimg src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

When she gos wild.. It's all ways turn me on

we have just discovered the female ejaculation (squirting) the fingers are the only tool upto now that can do it. Its amazing the juice goes every where and i like when its on my face.
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20 sweet candy toes to suck and lick of course 2 perfect holes to orally pleasure.

Turn me on during the act: talking dirty, eye contact, seehear her enjoing it...
Turn me down: teeth and bj, tongue inside (inside) hear... img src="imagesadultemoticons007.gif"

As a female part of a couple, the chase! Always the chase, arranging the meet ups the disappointment of cancellations because of schedule but the allure of next time, then the meet, then the planning to go further, then after the walk of shame when hubby and I leave the hotel to go back to our normal lives, then back in to the chat room for next time a couple take our fancy and the cycle begins, the promise of lingerie, tight boxer shorts the hard or soft bodies hair pulling, mind fucking all if this me on here mmm

As the sometime-third-party I am always enthralled when that "walk of shame" is conducted with the lovely couple concerned holding hands and looking on with a twinkle in their eyes.

But then I am an old softie.....