A few years ago when I didn't have quite as many grey hairs or wrinkles, I got talking to a colleague at work.
The conversation proceeded with the general chit chat as expected, good weekend? See the football? Do anything interesting?
Knowing a few weeks ago that he had met someone new & seemed to be getting on like a house on fire, I asked with trepidation (to be honest with you it had got a bit boring hearing how wonderful she was, how perfect everything seemed.... etc) how things were going in his sparkly new relationship? To which he replied......... " Oh it's over". Somewhat shocked, considering that he hadn't tired of telling anyone in listening distance how perfect things were I cautiously asked why? Fearing the answer, I got ready to offer my condolences & convince him that " she wasn't worth it ....... there's plenty more fish in the sea .... etc" But to my surprise he came back with...... " Oh I had to dump her because she wanted too much sex!"
After I had sat down & picked my chin up off the floor, I asked him if he was being serious? "Yes" he replied. Apparently this woman of his dreams wouldn't leave him alone. As soon as he got in the door she would be all over him, when they went to bed she wouldn't let him sleep & first thing in the morning she would make him late for work. "But that is what you were boasting about only a week or 2 ago" I replied. "Yeah but I'm fed up with it now & just want to get some sleep....."
Now I might be wrong here but surely when you find the woman or man of your dreams, to have sex on tap 24 hours a day seems pretty bloody perfect! It's the thing we all dream of & hope for! Or is it?
Has anyone been in a similar situation? Being either the participant who gave or received too much sex? Have you ever just wanted 5 minutes peace to have a cuppa and watch the tele while they just wanted to jump your bones? Or have they nipped out in the middle of the night to walk the geriatric dog (not a metaphor) when you're as horny as a triceratops in a trumpet shop? Can you understand how it could occur or baffled and think that too much is never enough?
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10:33 pm Sunday, 1st March, 2015
I've got one of those too...but I would be a fool to give it up! I keep thinking I must be dreaming...and it sure is a great dream. If I am dreaming, I don't ever wanna wake up!!!! img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons004.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons029.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons012.gif" |
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10:36 pm Sunday, 1st March, 2015
Good question. I don't think I've ever had a NORMAL sex life...there is either too much or too little. So I suppose I'm not really the one to answer. In my dreams (does that go for all of us, by any chance??) I find someone who is compatible with me. |
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8:15 am Monday, 2nd March, 2015
Looks like you can have too much of a good thing but how much is too much?
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1:03 pm Monday, 2nd March, 2015
Joe, I do agree that is subject to the person. I once read an article that said that apparently the average that a man would like to have sex was 2 times a day and in case of a woman 1. Really?
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1:41 pm Monday, 2nd March, 2015
I've always had a high sex drive..well what I considered to be 'high'...I was with my late husband for 24 years and we enjoyed a healthy very frequent sex life as a couple ..since his passing two years ago..intially I thought Id never want to have sex again...now I'm 'ready' for sex just not equipped for a relationship...I have sex with myself at least twice a day...and I'm 'greedy' if I'm with someone..however a person who needed or wanted sex constantly like the woman mentioned in original post would be too demanding for me ..so perhaps my sex drive isnt high !
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3:31 pm Monday, 2nd March, 2015
Steady now Graham lets not overdo it.....
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5:48 pm Monday, 2nd March, 2015
"How much is too much" ?? |
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5:48 pm Monday, 2nd March, 2015
"How much is too much" ?? |
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7:29 pm Monday, 2nd March, 2015
You see, that's exactly why I think quickies are the perfect solution. A five minute no frills shag bent over the bathroom sink can be earth-shattering. Bacon butty, down and dirty instant gratification sex can be pure guilty pleasure and you can have one as often as you like. |
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11:07 pm Monday, 2nd March, 2015
Can't beat a good Bacon butty Luv2 but can you over indulge in those as well?........ And doesn't it fall in the sink & get soggy?
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6:13 am Tuesday, 3rd March, 2015
Joe, you can never over indulge on bacon butties.
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7:30 am Tuesday, 3rd March, 2015
Far from there being anything wrong with a soggy one Luv2, it usually improves the overall experience of a good Bacon butty!
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5:44 pm Tuesday, 3rd March, 2015
Either this blog has turned into a smutty double-entendre ridden innuendo loaded filth fest or.............. It really is discussing breakfast? |
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7:24 pm Tuesday, 3rd March, 2015
Smutty filth fest here ;-) |
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4:19 pm Wednesday, 4th March, 2015
God, I could kill for a couple of really crispy fried bacon sarnies..., with an egg and well fried tomatoes on the lot..
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9:12 am Saturday, 7th March, 2015
Hornycouple you've just answered my blog! The answer is most definitely no. However the difficult part is finding the partner which is perfect for each other. Where the chemistry between each other is amazing, the sparks fly & the end result is constant lust, hot sex & a few bacon butties as well....
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11:45 pm Wednesday, 18th March, 2015
Joe. I think some people just don't realize what they have til it's too late or long gone. If someone is that into u why not have a talk... Say I need a few. But there is no thing as too much sex when u have that connection....touching back onto my blog ...... Mentally, emotionally, physically...... Communication is key. It's crucial! Be upfront and honest. No games. It takes time and my mother always said. Those who brag never did and never will. |
