patience is its own reward

Now then.
I often drop in to the hot tub on beta. The biggest complaint that guys raise is that there are so few women on. I think if you try and hook up the same day you're going to be very disappointed. I have done that once but it's very rare. This site seems to be the long game. Be yourself and not an asshole to people seems to pay dividends. Some people just want to chat so expect that. Single women are the smallest group therefore the most sought after. Remember this and adjust your behaviour accordingly. They get hounded in the chat rooms and are messaged constantly. Be realistic with your expectations.
This is what I've done and I do Ok. Modesty of course prevents me from naming and giving specifics but I'm more than happy with my time here.

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