When the goal is not to cum
When I usually have sex it is focused on make my partner cum or cum myself. Sometimes it is a quick one with no time for anything else, sometimes it is with some foreplay but what happens when you don't focus on cum?
My experiences on this have been really pleasurable and a good fun. The point is to extend the excitation with lots of foreplay, orals and some penetration (usually slow motion) as well but keep the main goal in not to cum... yet. You can even drive your partner close to the orgasm but controlling it to not arrive. You can enjoy this game for hours, usually more than 2.
And something I really really love is when she supplicate me to allow her to cum. :-) That is sooo strong that you can fell the whole room spinning around you. The excitement is so big that the orgasms are just WOW...amazing.
That is not for everyday, will need time enough and be relaxed. No hurries.
Have you ever tried that? How it was?
