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new year, new choices, hard choices

11:59 pm Saturday, 3rd January, 2015

So here i am at one huge crossroads in my life

Currently on hormones, but need to come out to my friends, family and work. As living as a man is killing me inside.

Plus im looking more femenin each day and soon they will notice anyways lol

Hard choices to make for this new year

Well thats me :-)

Penny
Xx



Comments
2:57 am Sunday, 4th January, 2015

Hi, I can't imagine or even phantom what ur struggles are each day. However, I think all people deserve to be happy. I am sorry for those who can't understand and are afraid of different. I think people who really love you will be with you no matter what. I don't know you, I just try to feel you in a way. I am sending you my best thoughts.

11:49 am Sunday, 4th January, 2015

I have a huge amount of respect for people like yourself. In an ideal world, everyone should have the right to free sexual expression. Sometimes - as an ordinary straight guy - I feel too immured in my comfort zone. I wish you the very best of luck.

12:33 pm Sunday, 4th January, 2015

Penny
It must be terrifying to put yourself out there to be judged by everyone! However life is short and you only get to do it the once; you deserve to be happy and if others do not allow that by stigmatising you for your sexuality then do you you really want them in your life to drag you down?
It will be difficult there is no denying that; however there will be many true friends who will support you and your choices. They are the people who deserve to be in your life!
All the best and good luck; be brave though as the results will make you a happier person
Scott

6:10 pm Sunday, 4th January, 2015

It's a very big step but I would imagine that most people will be supportive and probably already know. If they aren't accepting well then perhaps they should stay as part of your old life. Chin up and email me!

5:02 am Friday, 9th January, 2015

Bless you .None of it will matter to any one who is a proper friend to you. It`s your bussiness.No one elses.

5:58 pm Wednesday, 11th February, 2015

Must be the hardest thing anyone can do,i have the utmost respect fir people who eithet come out or change their gender good luck xxx

12:01 pm Thursday, 29th October, 2015

please let me know how it goes I wish you lots of love and luck collenn15 (colin)

4:20 pm Wednesday, 10th August, 2016

id take time and find a few close supportive before taking on all world area alone but dressing glam or goth look may set you free slowly to escape and let others see understand you plooming in her inside x

10:07 am Thursday, 8th September, 2016

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10:11 am Thursday, 8th September, 2016

I think you are so brave. Clearly you are doing the right thing so keep on and you will end up at peace with yourself. You grear gift is your beauty and your intelligence. You'll be reet!!!
My very best wishes. G xx

11:51 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

this is no joke sweetie, wish i was near and could be able to help out...

12:46 am Thursday, 5th January, 2017

To thine own self be true.
Trite, I know, but sometimes onme heart must overule ones head.
Keep going, honey, you will be fine.

12:08 pm Wednesday, 11th January, 2017

Hey

8:27 pm Sunday, 22nd January, 2017

Best of luck! I cant say I understand what you'll be going through, but if this is what you feel, pursue it, it will always be worth it.

7:23 am Tuesday, 24th January, 2017

Eventually someone will 😊xx

9:28 pm Tuesday, 24th January, 2017

you'll be stronger at the end of this , xx

9:32 am Wednesday, 13th March, 2019

OMG very good luck my gorgeous girl please take care and remember we are here for you hugs and kisses xxx

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