So...who are you among the two?
I am committed and I prefer to be bigamous.
Yeah, all of us here are into hunting and hoping that we could find our perfect partner in bed...but personally, when I find that ("that" okay, not "the") one, I am pretty sure that we will be constant in seeing each other and pretty much enjoy ourselves.
It is still an NSA set-up, no exclusivity, no label, no clingy stuff...just pure fun and companionship!
I may sound odd but yeah...the reason why I don't like committed men is because I am eaten up by the guilt that I am unintentionally hurting or disrespecting my colleague (women). Do I really sound odd? Lol
Well, technically, I am not being bigamous because there's no intimate emotions involved...just lust and pleasure...but psychologically, I do feel I am bigamous.
Anyway, it's always a choice ;)
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10:00 am Sunday, 21st September, 2014
Confused here I always thought monogamous was committed bigamous a crime and polygamous great fun lol |
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11:09 am Sunday, 21st September, 2014
There's a big difference between having sex with a lot or people and loving and emotionally attached with a lot of people. Being in love is preferably only for one person but most people (and I say most men and women) like to touched not only by the one they love but also with people they like. That's the essence of this hub isn't it? To find like minded people to share touches. |
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5:23 am Monday, 22nd September, 2014
I'll quote you on what I'm also looking for "It is still an NSA set-up, no exclusivity, no label, no clingy stuff...just pure fun and companionship!" Sadly and unfortunately, it's not that easy to find someone that can match what you wantlike. It's kind of ironic because you think it shouldn't be that hard to find someone who's looking for the same thing. |
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11:06 pm Thursday, 2nd October, 2014
I'm committed to several but still looking. What does that make me? A filthy lowdown love-rat ?? (as the tabloids say...... :-) |
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11:44 pm Thursday, 2nd October, 2014
Well not quite. I never wear suits and I don't have a line of patter. I'm more of an angler: occasionally I get a bite :-) |
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3:02 pm Saturday, 4th October, 2014
I'm mostly polyamide, but on occasion have been known to be polyvinylacetate. Never polyester though! |
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3:12 pm Saturday, 4th October, 2014
clim4x: I concede that a proportion of women think in the same way as yourself. However, you have to admit that society in general considers that to be the only "acceptable" mindset, and that if an individual has multiple partners, heshe is considered a "cheat", "perverted" or "over-sexed". Surely it's more sensible to conclude that any of the levels of human sexual need are acceptable, and not just the "one partner" concept. |
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7:55 pm Saturday, 4th October, 2014
Guess its a question of weather you wanna be a slave to your dickpussy or your heart |
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1:59 pm Sunday, 5th October, 2014
Hotlips: You don't have to be a slave to either. If I shagged anything with a pulse I'd just be an animal. However, as I'm human, I'd like to think that the deciding factor can be mental rapport and some degree of physical compatibility :-) |
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10:38 am Monday, 6th October, 2014
clim4x: But you've got your lovely partner to keep you happy, right ???? ;-) |
