Does "THE PIC" really matter?

Not all of us Brandon.... Some of us might like to be a bit more discreet and subtle rather than waving it in peoples faces (metaphorically speaking)...

MissG sometimes you should ask for a sales brochure before an inspection & test drive.

Deeper than atlantis...

Actually if I'd never put Dixon on display in the public domain, the chances are I'd never have got a shag, as I look like a middle-aged geek with my clothes on. However, you'd be surprised just how much interest a middle-aged geek can generate on a site like this :-)

Call me cynical but I like brains as well as brawn and whilst my public photograph is aimed to catch someone's eye my private photographs reveal my face etc but then I can choose who I send these too.

I agree SensualSelf

hi brandon couple..just put whatever u want on id say..in at the end of the day if the person likes or meets what they see on profiles its up to them...and hope to see you both in december if you can make it👍

Hi tried the subtle approach got me no where so showed what i have which gets me notice. Im an intelligent man and share face pic in private. Its fine saying its being a w xxxxker etc and egotistical but you cant get peoples attention on here as people dont respond to pm i think its because the attractive ladies get lots and the couples only want females or other couples.

So hence the nine incher out on display. Sad but all true lol

Guys like their cocks, so they take pictures of them - simple. Having said that, my experience is that most girls aren't interested in cock pics and it doesn't help to have one on the profile. A good snowmobile will do the job much better.

Which brings me to a much more interesting point - fanny pics. Why would anyone have one on their profile? 9 out of 10 of them look like they came out of a medical textbook. Much better to show some skimpy knickers over a nice round ass.

@Lilith: surely that should be "I only *ask* to see a penis if I *want* to see it"?!

Why is it an suumption that someone with a large penis will not understand the needs of a women and that man with a smaller one will be a better love maker. However good post much debate. Just wish i put mine to more use

I dnt think size matters its hw u use it that matters as a bbw most guys go on abt my breasts but then others would say mre than a handfull is a waste make love not war xx

If you can't chat, you can't meet me. End of. I prefer a man who has enough brain to overcome the brawn, and like to see pics only after I've decided the brain is there. And worth it.

How unusual. But then, we're all unique.

PS--I received a pic via e-mail the other day that was great (this after countless chats). It showed a man lying face down (nude) on a bed. Give me pics like that any time, I agree with Lilith on the others.

I'm the most modest and unassuming bloke you could ever imagine...........it's just that Dixon is a total egotist and thinks he's the bee's knees, so naturally that has created internal conflict; and despite my efforts at trying to tone down his exhibitionism, he always seems to have the last word.

Gilli: As I'm a fee-paying member I thought I'd do you a favour and look at wilmshurst's dick for you. I can assure you it's definitely worth considering :-)

Oh.......and while this seems to have bobbed to the surface again.......I'm still waiting for any evidence that women here really *do* think that brains are a winner (although admittedly a bit of brawn might not be a bad thing either: See my blog about the "geezer" :-)

Hi Skebbie did you not see the comment I made earlier today re brains?? Perhaps I'm rare for the female species as I definitely like brains too.

I always think it's sad when a bloke's glans replaces his brain: I've been trying to fight it all my life, but sometimes it's a losing battle, especially when you're pitted against such a determined and lecherous Siamese twin :-)

Oh....and as for female genital shots, I see that each time I visit an oyster bar.....and very nice they are too :-)

Oooo oyster bars - a deliberately controversial comment me thinks lol

I'd happily receive a sext from MissG.

Much as I'd love to think that the "brains over brawn" and "making a connection" are the most important thing to you ladies I fear that like us guys more than anything you love a massive cock. Hell if I had a huge dick fuck posting it on my profile I'd have a billboard poster on the side of my house!

Ss, TFL are waaaay ahead of you, they've had oysters on billboards for years!

Mmm tricky one...

I used to have no pics and got no responses.

Then I put some pics on and things changed markedly - for the better.

So based on my own experience the right pictures, including one's todger, help.

I think, though, that there is much more required, such as trying to show, across cyberspace, that one is genuine, reasonably good fun and worth at least a chat.

Oh and having a picture with a tractor on has done no harm whatsoever - it is a talking point if nothing else!

I'm a crossdresser and show I'm a genuine male under my skirt by showing it off....... img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"

I'd much rather see a full body shot clothed or unclothed torso.. It's not the size, but what they can do with it that matters.
It's like a persons response to a message, do they seduce with their words or just wam bam it..

MGN, I don't think you even need a pulse to have the womanly advantage!

Goldengates harsh appraisal there but i see where your coming from. I was asked for the pics wouldnt normally do it but has caused interest shall we put it like that

In my humble opinion, if a man has to show his penis and that's all he's got to offer then there's zero point in me looking at him talking to him or any type of involvement. Its actually a total turn off to me. I prefer to see a man nicely dressed with his whole face and body showing so I can get a true overall view of what he looks like. I'm sure a small bit of info in the profile can offer any details of the equipment. And if a meeting is proposed then maybe he can send or offer a pic if I need to see it.

"Palming oneself off" seems quite appropriate really.

I am very proud of my bathroom as it happens...

Very spic and span - always....

Just 'Enery th' Eiyth, or the same issue with all monarchs from Alfred onwards?

You can't compare breast size to being same as cock size (Kinkygamer). A big cock "fills you up". Sometimes if it massive it is almost too much to cope with.

All that happens if you have big titssmall tits is that your hands may or may not runneth over.

Aye, She's Got The Jack!

Ss, I ain't done nuffink. Don't tell I tell 'e!

Back on topic, I've not got an engraving of my tallywhacker on my profile, and no bugger ever messages me so it must be true! !

Good heavens Mrcouplebrandon - that is a big one. Much more impressive size-wise than my modest offering.

That said you couldn't get that up anyone's back lane without doing serious damage plus it would probably frighten the sheep.

Blimey, a Versatile and a foamy edf on one profile...good going!

Ss, reminds me of a ZZ Top song....

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doktorzook, Impressive!! The fact that you know that it is a Foamy EDF is pretty awesome! you should send a friend request if you wish to have a chat about RC aircraft. :)

"Does the pic really matter?"

Indeed it does. As a matter of fact, I don't think there are enough huge, massive, ginormous willy pics on this site. We need more guys to post pics on their profiles. Are you listening guys? More I say, MORE!

I was initially thinking 'Pearl necklace' but in the end it was 'Legs' that won it!

"but I did get a personal thrill of flinging my boobs on here"

Ahhh....I sense a kindred spirit :-) Being a weedy geeky man in middle life, it was quite an epiphany for me to realize what a difference a few pics of what lay underneath the clothes would make on a site like this. "Liberating" is perhaps the understatement of the year :-)

"sometimes it's the colour, shape and jauntiness that amuses me"

The mind boggles, particularly the "jauntiness" angle :-) I was wondering whether I could cajole you into writing a blog about "the most aesthetically pleasing dick"?? Mind you, that kind of thread would have the greatest potential for violent knee-jerk reactions from the owners of penises that are found wanting :-)

Yes, but what interests me is the *rationale* for personal preferences :-) I've always had a fascination for *how* different people look at the world.

Jauntiness is an interesting criteria...although depends on the type of headgear being applied to get the right angle. (I mean the correct angle of course, very rarely can a right angle be jaunty. ..)