I was pleasantly surprised when I discovered there was an online community for soft-fetishes [the 'hard' ones have more takers].
My fetish happens to be female dominant [f/m] hand-over-mouth gag/smother. Also known as HOM (or handgag). I would say it is related to tease, kidnap and breath-play (asphyx) fetishes.
As far as indulgence goes, I would say it is circumstantial - personally, I've enjoyed the rare occasions when I was silenced by a feminine hand (cousins/classmates). Never had the courage to ask to be silenced!
Most of my fellow fetishists will agree, we prefer to keep our 'little fantasy' to ourselves and the internet as a mask while disclosing our whim.
Thanks to fetish video producers, the HOM community does get by. And thanks to communities like this, I hope to interact with ladies who understand my fetish/kink.
I'd love to indulge, voluntarily! ;)
Thanks for taking the time to read this journal post.
Have a nice day!
