What do you do, if you get bored with having sex the same old way?

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I can't imagine she's too thrilled having sex with you either. Poor woman.

Well you're on this site asking the question, so methinks you know your answer already....

@ Minerva0 the problem is with my wife. she don't want to have sex in the morning, afternoon, evening she only does is at night. i have a very high sex drive & i hate having sex on the bed. i want to do it in the living room, in the shower, on a table, on a chair. but she finds it as funny thing to do other than in the bed room.

she probably doesn't like you spitting in her mouth either. Clearly she is the problem. Divorce her

I suppose when marital sex becomes stale, that's when people join this site :-) Couples trying desperately to "spice things up", whereas in reality both of them would be happier shagging other people :-)

Maybe showing her a vido of you giving her sister a good seeing to would make her see the error of her ways?

Arosha: Why not move your bed up onto the roof, or shift its location once every few days (for example the neighbour's back yard, the car park at Morrisons's, the local tennis court, etc.)? Your problems would be solved at a stroke !!!

Arosha, I very rarely put any serious comments on here, as life's to short for anything else but a smile. However, 'The problem is with my wife' really? 'She only wants to do it in the bedroom!' And your difficulty with that is what exactly?

Ok, perhaps she's not as wild and as adventurous as you would like, and ready to drop her knickers whenever you click your fingers. Big deal!

Your wife is prepared to share your advances in the bedroom, presumably in a satisfactory fashion or you'd be moaning about that issue too. So accept the fact that she isn't as wild and adventurous as you are, and be happy with your life.

I know a lot of guys would be more than appreciative of a woman that only wanted to keep sexual activities to the bedroom. Myself included, and yes I like it up against the fridge, across the kitchen table, down in the wine cellar, and draped over the chaise lounge in the hallway, but this is your wife! Not some two penny prostitute you picked up in the street.

If it's that much of a terrible boring life your having to endure then perhaps it's time for you to move on!

Arosha: If all else fails, there's always bromide.

I'm with Doc Zook..
Shag her sister on camera.. you'll definitely see your partner a LOT more animated then..

Try telling her and showing her the recording just before you cum when next shagging. :)

She wont be as boring for quite a while I'm guessing!! Depends on how long you can hang on, lol.

Looking at the past few comments on this blog, I can see parallels with Viz magazine. Occasionally blogging can attain Pulitzer levels :-)

after we have been to gather and also after the marriage she had never asked & said me, come to bed, lets have sex. sometimes i get the felling am i the only one who need to have sex!

Arosha have not considered that she just is not interested in having sex with YOU? You put all the blame on her. I would suggest it is you who are the problem, not her.

Lilith, maybe you would be good enough to speak toat my wife. She did fess up to going without for five years (yes that's five years), in an earlier relationship. Says it was all at her end so did the counselling thing with limited success.

Sort of wish I'd known earlier - but she did a good marketing job on me. Might have married the Latvian twins instead.

@ Minerva0 need more advice plz inbox me. I'm 100% sure that she is not having an affair. she's just not into sex. when i asked about her she's telling she don't have those kind of feelings. and correction. Who said anything about spitting in her mouth?? i said i enjoy it when my ex doing to me.

If only, a lot of people would delight in having your particular'problem', ahem, if I feel the need for a change I go from leftie to rightie for the niteimg src="imagesadultemoticons017.gif" I think if you consider the alternative and put a lot more effort into romancing your lady wife you may be surprised.

thanks Roger035. we are planing to move to Dubai coz of my job & hoping things will get better there.

Hahaha nicely put clim4x, I can't wait for your follow up!!

G4H do you think the latvian twins are still free? :)