Having recently joined this wonderful community I was a little anxious when seeing the comments left on peoples pics, not least because I'm not the type to share such things publically with someone i ddon't know. Don't get me wrong, I do not judge those that can and, in a way, I envied them as I feared I'd not get any responses should I not conform to that which appeared to be the norm on here..
After a few weeks I realised that just as in real life I cared not for peoples opinions and chose that being myself was key.. I never realised how successfull this would be and once I'd stopped trying to be the person I expected prospective meets wanted me to be ad instead the person I actually am the responses came flooding in.
Suppose what I'm saying is never be scared to be the real you no matter how far from the so called