Coming Out To Your Wife

5:56 am Friday, 18th April, 2014

Jimmygoingdown

How many guys out there have come out to your wives as bi or gay?

What was your experience?

My wife took it a lot better than I thought she would. It turns out she was thinking it for a few years. Apparently she found my stash of gay/bi porn many years prior.

I must say it was really freeing to have her know my "dark side". And she didn't leave me to boot! I would still like to have her open enough to have me point out the hot guy in the store we are in, but apparently she isn't ready for that kinda openness yet. ;)

Hopefully she will get to the point that I CAN point out hot guys when I see them. I would live that kinda of friendship with her but I'm thinking she will never be there, but one can always hope.

Our sex life has always been amazing, we've been together for almost 20 years now and has been better than ever the last 5. She has to know I'm not gay and that I still get very excited over woman, especially her. I guess I can see her point of view, I've never pointed out hot woman to her; for obvious reasons.

Are there any other bi guys out there that have come out to their wives? Perhaps you can suggest some dos and donts? I know everyone is different, but could help me out.

Jimmy.



Comments

7:46 pm Friday, 18th April, 2014 1wipemedown

wife want to me with another guy it turns her on by another guy doing me in my booty . Let me say I m not gay but willing to try it for her

7:46 pm Friday, 18th April, 2014 1wipemedown

wife want to me with another guy it turns her on by another guy doing me in my booty . Let me say I m not gay but willing to try it for her

8:15 pm Friday, 18th April, 2014 Jimmygoingdown

This would be so much easier and enjoyable for me if my wife felt that was. Thanks for the comment.

8:19 pm Friday, 18th April, 2014 Jimmygoingdown

Stephanie. Honesty is usually the best policy. I'm lucky, she could have kicked my ass out the door. I've heard too many stories like that. How did your brothers take it? Good I hope.

1:03 am Saturday, 17th January, 2015 Bibobb

Honesty is best policy I think...i wasn't open about it and in the end it took its toll

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