i dont like dildos...........?

Well if he jumped off then that's unbeleiveable.

Toys form part of the total experience - If a guy can't cope with you're toys then it's not worth coping with the guy.

And in answer to the actual question

TURN ON - absolutely xx

why chose, use both lol

Is vibrator not better than dildo.
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Never used sex toys and never will. Lips, tongue, fingers and cock are capable of delivering all the sexual nuances one could wish for if one has the experience and skill (oil and lube are also helpful), or even two brain cells to rub together :-)

As for a woman suddenly producing a dildo or a vibrator when with a male sexual partner, I'd have thought it would serve as a signal to the guy that he's lacking in endowment or expertise, and therefore a bit of a turn-off :-)

As FA famously remarked: If you think about the opposite situation for a woman, it's about as encouraging as one's male partner suddenly producing a wank-mag at the crucial moment :-)

They can be mind-blowing used together in the right situation. Some years ago back in school, I was quite avert to using anything that resembled the slightest threat to the ol chap, getting over that took only one encounter with then girlfriends mothers dildo. img src="imagesadultemoticons008.gif" Ah memory's.

Later in life, I've used all-sorts with partners from pussy pumps to the kitchen sink! I highly recommend the Hitachi Magic Wand, It once gave my ex a nose bleed she came so many times. I was never afraid she would run off and shag a Terminator. Analog always prevails :)

Ginger: Point taken. BTW, due to extreme busy-ness in last 2 weeks I've not been able to wade through all of your stuff yet, but promise I'll get back to you about it before too long..... xx

Gilli: Can see the exhibitionistic potential there. Certainly if a GF wanted to use a toy on herself in front of me, I wouldn't object :-)

I think it's all obviously all in the timing.
I love a woman to use toys, but to get one out after I'd just given my all?
I'd be gutted!!! Lol....
X

That's why I'd be gutted..lol.. X

Hmm ... sometimes it feels good to have a bacon butty whilst he watches.

Watching you play with either would be a dream come true,especially after seeing your videos!xx

I don't like dildos..........

Wasn't that a Boomtown Rats number or have I been catching a whiff of the Evo Stick again??

Anyway - back to topic. Nowt wrong with a toy or two as far as I am concerned - although hopefully as an addition to the fun as opposed to something in a glass case with "in the event of an anti-climax break glass, strike knob on floor and aim at centre of fire" written on it.

major turn-on Ginger as I'm sure you would expect from me :) if he couldnt get u off he should have used all means at his disposal at least until he recovered enough to get his cock back in the game. I see you've had a cleanout of your friends list again - feeling unloved :(

Aussie definition of a guys beer belly, balcony over the toyshop lol

I thought it was a fuel tank for a sex machine?

Porky, ya perv
Nice to see you back in blogland x

I enjoy watching women use toys on themselves, and other women.
I also enjoy a woman holding a vibe on my balls as she sucks my cock, makes me cum really hard.
Toys are just part of a horny sexual encounter.

Nothing worse then an inadequate man.

Would of been a major turn on no woman should be left to satisfy herself

"no woman should be left to satisfy herself"

You make it sound like a crime against humanity. Perhaps we should convene the UN security council.

I'm a sensitive guy, with not a lot of experience, and a bit unconfident m
I admit my reaction would be of disappointment and guilt - I wasn't able to satisfy you.
But being a bit pervy, I would certainly do anything to make the experience even better.
So a dildo up one hole, while I'm satisfying the other would be good.
Or if it was clear that it was being used for warm up, or because you wanted something specific at that time.

I've had experience of women not liking to receive oral, or having fingers inside them. But I've experience of the exact opposite too - fond memories.

if it adds to the fun why not, if sum1 has a problem with it ,then thats thier problem

if it adds to the fun why not, if sum1 has a problem with it ,then thats thier problem

How about a dildo in both nether regions, and in all other available orifices??? Awesome !! Richter-scale seismic eruptions would be a cert !!!

As Lilith says, I have a dildo in my hand and I'm not afraid to use it! lol......ouch

definitely a turn on, toys always add more fun to the experience. Its why I have a few for when ever I have someone over

turn on big time babe x

Definite turn on,regardless of size and shape.He must of felt terribly inferior,poor lad!

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good idea

Naaaa fuck that I love a naughty who will play with her pussy while I fuck it, even like to watch a lady play we ith her toys but maybe thats just me

What else you can do or use if he can't be enought man

Insertions...... Erm....read the following and decide.
I knew a lady who worked in the A and E Dept. of Barnet General Hospital She told me of the many strange things that got stuck in ladies pussies and had to be removed,including dildos, tennis balls, a half eaten apple and a broken bottle.
The funniest was a guy who arrived with a vibe up his bum which ahd somehow got jammed.His embarrassment was compounded by the fact that it was still running and buzzing and that he had made the journey to the hospital by bus.I bet that made his change jingle when he came to pay his fare !img src="imagesadultemoticons021.gif"

No it's not a turn off I guess he thought that you might use it on him . LOL
Don't know where you are but I would love to restore your faith in men and play with you and your vibe .
T x

Only once have I had a dildo shoved up my arse, and it was a spear of fire. I foolishly caved in at the insistence of my then GF who assured me it would take me "to a new dimension". It did indeed: probably the top level of purgatory.

I'm a fairly undemanding sort of chap and would never insist on ladies opening up their sewer exit for foreign objects; or indeed their natural "love channel". Similarly, I realize now that I have no desire to be rogered up the arse by a stiff, unyielding object made of plastic or metal. It just ain't natural. And ladies......no, I'm not inclined to "yield myself" to anal abuse from would-be "dommes" in their 20s, who (for some reason) have suddenly infested the site in the last month or so. What has happened to self-respecting British manhood I want to know??? :-)

Curvy: How about second hand, but with proof of total sterilization (i.e. dipped in Domestos, followed by microwaving and then exposure to gamma-rays.........which ought to take care of most microbes)??

Or is it just "the thought"...??

(PS: This is pure academic interest, you realize :-)

Curvy: Microwaveable dildos........hmmmm maybe you're onto something there. Suggest you get in touch with our resident sexual entrepreneur Funtimes :-)
A joint venture perhaps?

Ginger: I'm mortified my Dixon plaster cast never reached you !!! OMG !!! I'm fretting now imagining him lying shattered in his jiffy bag somewhere in a dusty corner of Belfast central sorting office. I was wondering whether the X-ray machine wrongly identified him as a stick of gelignite mailed by the Provos. It's always the innocent who get caught up in the crossfire.

Lilith: Couldn't agree more. 50 shades of total bollocks has a lot to answer for I suspect. Mind you, historically, there has always been a uniquely British brand of sexual activity that involves being corporally punished "for being nawty" etc. etc. (yawn........). Seems a large proportion of UK men and women simply can't get off unless they abuse each other. I suppose every culture has its own approach to sex..............

Ginger Red. Knowing you have a fine soprano voice, I am adapting an old Boomtown Rats number for you to sing at your next public performance.
It is entitled " I don't like Dildos "img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

Fetch! Lyrics for your approval!

A dildo slipped in Gingered
Gets switched to overload,
All she wanted was a stiff tool today
Some red hot lovers bone!
She really doesn’t understand it
She always said they were hard and cold
And she can see no reasons
'Cos there are no reasons
Why on earth would you need to ow-ow-ow-ow-own? (One)

Tell me why, I don't like dildo's
Tell me why, I don't like dildo's
Tell me why, I don't like dildo's,

I want shuuu uuuuu uuut the dam thing down!

Definitely are turn on watching a girl get herself off ;)

Makes you smile. Excellent ! Who were these blokes Lloyd Webber and Rice or Rogers and Hammerstein anyway ?
Knowing our dear friend Gingerred however, probably something more int he style of Gilbert and Sullivan ,would tickle her fancy better ( although as far as I'm aware, they never wrote a Comic Opera about dildos ) Hmmmm, food for thought.

Yes love it!!!

Love watching dildo action I'd even join in ;)

Gingerred " She stoops to conquer " maybe ?

Only just started to read your posts and my good they are good, the mind is the best sex aid but gotta say if you had brought it out in front of me, I would of asked if you needed lube and help with it or if you just wanted me to sit rest and watch so I was ready for round too, or maybe if you had other ideas and if you got some anal ease with you as my own supply had run out and could we start with a smaller one first as my arse is feeling particularly tight this evening 😊😉😙😳😈💋