Has anybody ever been on a meet and really not known how well it has gone?
I have recently had the pleasure of meeting with a new friend off the hub and lets just say I totally misread the situation. We met for lunch.. A gorgeous man. Very intelligent, kind, caring genuinely interested in talking to me so far so good.. Although the whole time I am sitting there wondering what it is this man wants. Yes there were smiles.. I can remember blushing a few times but this was different to past meets I had been on.. No obvious mention of sex... We skirted round the subject but didnt really dwell on it. I got home and was confused I had had a lovely afternoon with a lovely man but seriously didnt know what direction things would go in. I even found myself messaging him asking him if and where he felt I would fit in in his life.. A strange question I know but it needed to be asked I was extremely confused and needed to know if this was something I wanted to get into. He replied with he had no expectations and as long as I was happy he was happy. So we organized a meet at his place dinner and a movie.. Unsure of how to dress as was adamant this was not going to be a sexual meet at all.. Not that I didn't want it to be just from the vibes I had got from our messages and our meet. We ordered pizza we chatted and well things developed quite quickly into a very sexual matter :) I told him how I didn't think he had looked at me in that way and he promptly informed me otherwise. Just shows that that the signs aren't always obvious but me going along not expecting anything made the situation that much more enjoyable to the extent that 13 hours later we just had to meet again to have a replay to make sure I hadn't been dreaming!!
9:02 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Lucky you! |
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9:42 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Sometime soon I'm going to have to get myself out there and join the world of singletons. Problem is, I'd much rather deal with men in the world of business where they are often very skilled at communicating their intentions. In the boardroom I can read their body language pretty well in order to manipulate them into doing what I want. ;-) |
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11:07 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Olivers.....it's before sex, that I have trouble with figuring out what some they want. If it's a matter of wanting different things, that's USUALLY clear BEFORE we meet, so I don't. But not always. |
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11:11 am Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Olivers, not sure I go for league players of any level. Too competitive and get far too excited when they see balls ;-) |
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2:03 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Great expectations ? |
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2:03 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Great expectations ? |
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5:48 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Mynamegoeshere - RESPECT! Did you type that on your mobile phone? |
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10:34 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013
I think so too :) |
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10:37 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013
Luv2sucU - thanks :) but in all honesty Destiny is the one that requires the respect! |
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11:30 pm Thursday, 29th August, 2013
girldownunder - well as they say, it takes two to tango and tango we did but next time Destiny is taking the lead, I do have two left feet ;) |
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12:25 am Friday, 30th August, 2013
Great blog as alwaysx A very lucky gent indeed to play it so cool as to almost miss an opportunityx Always takes a moments courage to get passed that awkward silent moment before a good bye to a hot time being had:) |
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3:52 am Friday, 30th August, 2013
Destiny - I am at your disposal, feel free to dance all over me :) |